I’m no longer at Wikimedia, but I’m still involved in the software that runs Wikipedia: MediaWiki. I do some consulting on it (and other PHP work)
Although software and computers consume a large amount of even my free time, I also have a wife a four children. I offer this simply as proof that I am not completely socially inept. In what little free time I have left, I enjoy reading and discussing books. Right now, most of that reading is around the lives of Orthodox saints and their books, but I also read with my Mennonite neighbor (literally, he lives on the same block and he has some great ideas).